leadership coaching

to lead ourselves and others we need to 

understand how humans function

Leaders are individuals who have the ability to impact and influence those around them. 

Leaders need to have high levels of Emotional Intelligence to lead effectively, but to go the next level and be the most effective leader Emotional Intelligence is not enough... they need to have Emotional Intimacy skills too.

An emotionally intimate leader will have the ability to properly gauge and calibrate those around them so that they can use the most effective strategy to achieve the desired outcome. 

Leaders are not Managers or Supervisors. Managers & Supervisors are role based and are not relationship based. 

Leaders are flexible and have the ability to think on their feet, adapt swiftly to changes around them and remain calm.

True Leaders are individuals who add massive value to themselves, those around them and to business that they Lead within. 

These skills are often referred to as "soft skills" yet they are the hardest to understand and master and that is why only the very best Leaders have these skills in abundance....the rest are mediocre leaders at best, probably are more the Manager/Supervisor types.  

Using my extensive 20+ years of military leadership training and my understanding and knowledge of Human Behaviour, I have created a 12 weeks training program designed specifically to grow these Soft Skills.

This training can be delivered either in person or online. 

It can be delivered to individuals or groups of people. 

Here is what will be covered:

12 pillars of conscious leadership (can be delievered online or in person

Pillar 1 - What is emotional intelligence and what role does it play in leadership?

  • Get clear on the aims of the program.

  • 7 Critical area of choice.

  • Choice is something we all have, but very few exercise in a resourceful way.

  • How to empower those around you through their thoughts and choices.

 

Pillar 2 - Understanding emotions

  • Understanding emotions, what are they, why do we have them?

  • Emotions v Feelings – what’s the difference?

  • 4 Step strategy to dealing with emotions.

  • Shame – how to understand what Shame is and recognise it.

  • How to turn Toxic Shame into Healthy Shame.

 

Pillar 3 - Connection and the ability to effectively communicate with others

  • Create solid relationships based on the 6 Core Needs of all human beings.

  • Learn to Listen – listening is a skill that not many people possess. When people feel listened too, they feel valued. In leadership it is imperative to listen.

  • Partake in the Listening Workshop.

 

Pillar 4 - Calibration of yourself, others and situations

  • Meta Filters - Understand how we take on board information and situations.

  • Understand and develop filters that will serve us well and to be able to create different perspectives.

  • Feedback, the importance of feedback and how to give and receive it.

  • Develop an understanding of the universal growth model that applies to everyone.

 

Pillar 5 - Conflict management

  • Using the skills already learnt, apply them to deal with and manage conflict.

  • Peace Pyramid – a tried and trusted system to managing and resolving conflict.

  • Role Play to put to use the skills already developed.

 

Pillar 6 – Stress Management

  • What is Stress, how does it happen & what is the impact on us and others.

  • How to recognise personal Stress and to regulate and manage Stress in ourselves.

  • How to identify stressful situations, plan and reduce the impact of stress on us, our team and others around us.

 

Pillar 7 - Growth & development through effective goal setting

  • Without growth, we stagnate – “We are either green and growing or ripe and rotting”

  • Learn about effective Goal Setting that will ensure constant, sustainable growth and development.

  • Discuss how this can be applied to ourselves and others.

 

Pillar 8 - Systematic approach to all tasks

  • Without structure there is chaos.

  • Bring sustainability and replicability to all task using the Critical Alignment Model (CAM Model)

 

Pillar 9  - Effective Communication

  • Discover the skill of listening.

  • You will partake in the listening workshop and learn the finer parts of being an effective listener.

  • We must first seek to understand, before we seek to be understood.

  • A leader needs to be able to lead upwards, downwards and sideways and to do this they need to know how to communicate and use language.

 

Pillar 10 – How to read others

  • Leadership is about influencing those around you.

  • To do this we need to be able to understand those around us.

  • Discover the 4 key drivers of all people and how to recognise who uses which drivers.

  • Understanding these 4 energy types will ensure you will always create a great rapport with everyone you meet.

 

Pillar 11 - Misalignment

  • How to recognise resistance in what you are doing, thinking and feeling. Also, how to recognise resistance in others.

  • Understand the impact of just 1% of misalignment and the detrimental impact it has on yourself and others around you.

  • How to reduce the probability of Misalignment.

 

Pillar 12 – Debriefing 

  • Using a model that I have adapted from my Military background, discover the value of Debriefing, unpacking, self-reflection and how to use it to grow and develop.

  • You will then use this technique to debrief each of the previous 11 sessions and identify the areas where you can grow even further.

Does this sound like it will be a good fit for you or a leader (inspiring leader) within your business?

If so, please either give us a call or an email to discuss your needs or how we can create your future leader(s) who will assist you to create a great workplace culture, outstanding results and free you up to do what you do best....

which is running and growing your business

Contact

Steve Barker

Tanami Street

Wagga Wagga

NSW 2650

0499 152 552

steve@iamenoughcoaching.com

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