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Clarity is a wonderful thing, but how do you get it?

Do you ever find yourself caught up in the “Whirlwind of Life”, you know the chaos that goes on in life.... and you can’t see the wood for the trees.

It feels like all hell is breaking loose and you have no idea how you can deal with it all…

I am sure you will have probably experienced this….

And if you had, it is madness….

But when you are caught up in the Whirlwind, you can’t see the woods for the trees, you in the craziness of it all.

And this is where people get stuck…unable to make a clear decision or to think about something clearly.

One of the key elements of anyone’s life is stability, it is actually one of the external needs of a Human Being when we are viewing it through the “Vitality Model”.

This is a great model to use when you are seeking the path to your inner self, to find peace and love and to connect with your centered self….I love the “Vitality Model”, but I get distracted, we are not here to talk about that today….

So let’s discuss how we can calm this “Whirlwind of Life” in a moment so that we can get clarity on a situation and to work out where to be going next.

The first thing is to give ourselves the permission to hit the STOP button on life…

Why do we need to give ourselves permission?

Because it is a scary thing to do…because we may miss out on something important if we are not engaged…

That’s right… that is the thing we are scared of, the fear of missing out……or as the “hip cool youngsters” would say FOMO!

Crazy isn’t, we are scared of missing out…..but are we not missing out already because we are caught up in the Whirlwind?

We can’t see anything whilst we are in Whirlwind because it is chaos, so just imagine what we are missing out on all of the time whilst we are in the Whirlwind!!!

So, let’s hit the STOP button and pause the moment.

Now, rather than me explaining this in the written form, I have recorded a short video for you to explain this principle, and how you can implement it…

And, because you have read this far, I am pretty sure you are going to want to watch it…

So, here is the link

Now, I would love to hear your thoughts, insights, feelings and experiences as you have started to put this Principle into action. Maybe you haven’t put it into action yet, why? Reach out, let’s have a chat about it…

Or even better, if you are in Wagga on the 23rd February, I am running a workshop where I will be sharing heaps of insights, hacks, tips etc just like this one….plus I will be discussing the “Vitality Model” that I mentioned earlier.

If you are interested in attending this workshop, you can book your ticket using the link below.

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