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No child has ever learned from being locked in a room, on their own with a blank piece of paper and

Updated: Jan 8, 2021

They will not learn how to read unless someone helps them.

They won't be able to recognise numbers unless someone shows them.

They can't do addition and subtraction unless someone guides them.

We know this....right?

So, why as adults do we think that this doesn't apply to us?

But we do...

We believe that we can achieve great things on our own, without help.

Does this work?

Sometimes it does, but 9 times out of 10 it ends in failure...

Too much failure and we start to believe we are rubbish at it, or it is stupid.

That belief then becomes our truth and we give up.

Sound familar?

It sure does, I myself have done this over and over again.

Until I realised I was damaging myself.

When I had that realisation I decided to change.

I got the help, guidance, advice...

I did this through finding Mentors and Coaches in the areas where I wanted to grow and develop.

You can do the same....

This is what I do now through my I am Enough Coaching facebook pages, groups and websites.

You are free to take a look or find alternative sources to assist you...

The main point of this ariticle is to raise your awareness to a common limiting belief.

The belief that as an adult, we don't need guidance, help or assistance.

That we can do it ourselves...

Change your belief, change your world.

Wherever you are in the world....

Stay Safe and Take Care.

Steve Barker

I am Enough Coaching
















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