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I don't want to be me no more...
Staring into the mirror, these words would go round and round in my head. "I don't want to be me no more" "Who are you?" Every mirror, every

Steve Barker
Aug 1, 20203 min read
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Cor ... It's a Latin word, but what does it mean?
You talk to yourself, you convince yourself you will be OK.
You tell yourself stories through imagining how you will attempt this thing..

Steve Barker
Jul 29, 20201 min read
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What is the point...
Infuriating would have been a good word to describe the mood... This seemed impossible. Let's just throw it in the "fcuk it" bucket and...

Steve Barker
Jul 22, 20202 min read
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Discover why we Self-Sabotage and how to beat it....
...and what if there is no evidence to find...
We CREATE SOME!!
This is what happens when we Self-Sabotage...

Steve Barker
Jul 17, 20201 min read
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She was almost Uncoachable...
If she didn't pull her head out of her arse and look at things from a different perspective...
She would only ever experience what she had

Steve Barker
Jul 12, 20202 min read
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Why can't I get this...
we have wired our thinking to be comfortable and safe where we are...
The Human Being is an animal and like all animals it is efficient at

Steve Barker
Jul 12, 20203 min read
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This place is full of dickheads...
People are scared to address these sort of issues, because they think that as a leader they need to be liked.
Wrong
Fear of...

Steve Barker
Jun 29, 20202 min read
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BOUNDARIES ARE LIKE A GARDEN FENCE
Because there will always be those people...
This is where our lives, become like our garden...
If we allow anyone to come in and rampag

Steve Barker
Jun 27, 20202 min read
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HIS BREATH STANK...
I mean, how do you tell someone that you like that they breath is like a bad day at the tip?
This was more awkward than watching a sex sce

Steve Barker
Jun 24, 20203 min read
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"I AM UNABLE TO MAKE A DECISION"...
Things were getting worse rather than better...
Having tried many different medical professionals, none of them had helped...

Steve Barker
Jun 21, 20201 min read
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It was blindingly obvious...
he described it as if someone had finally given her the right glasses to wear.
How did she get to this moment?

Steve Barker
Jun 19, 20202 min read
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FFS....I WAS OVER IT
Here we go again, another Bullshit decision made by someone who has no idea what is really going on.
I felt like storming off and slamming

Steve Barker
Jun 10, 20202 min read
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"I felt abandoned..."
This is how one of my clients explained how they felt whilst they experienced a period of turbulence in their mental wellbeing... They...

Steve Barker
May 27, 20201 min read
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Perfect....does that even exist?
's like getting your ducks in a line...
What a load of rubbish that phrase is...
have you ever seen a mother duck lining up all her ....

Steve Barker
May 23, 20202 min read
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I CAME SCREAMING BACK IN LIKE A SCARED 5-YEAR-OLD
There was no way I was going to do that again in a hurry…
Once I understood this new way thing, taking on new challenges became much easier

Steve Barker
May 22, 20202 min read
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She accused him of having an affair...
He wanted a divorce…
and ended up accused being of having an affair…
I know….WTF?

Steve Barker
May 22, 20202 min read
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Counsellors and Psychiatrist are failing you...
There is a major thing that Counsellors and Psychiatrists are not giving you ...
After all, you work hard to earn your money and when you s

Steve Barker
May 22, 20202 min read
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Why can't you just shut up and listen
Why can’t you just shut up and listen?
Have you ever felt like that when you are trying to talk to someone?
It is so infuriating when they..

Steve Barker
May 9, 20202 min read
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Burnout - What it is, how to recognise it & how to prevent it
Burnout is real and does happen. The consequences are costly in both financial and personal ways. People have got divorced due to burnout, p

Steve Barker
Apr 22, 20202 min read
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"Expectation is the root of all heartache" - William Shakespeare
Expectations are responsible not only for heartache, but also low self-confidence and esteem.
In this video I share a strategy that I use..

Steve Barker
Mar 9, 20201 min read
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